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Speaker 1: Wife of Adoor State Governor, Betsy of Maasaki, has said

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she’s hopeful of giving birth at God’s own time, adding

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she’s a fruitful woman who have had numbers of miscarriages

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and cases of stillmaths or evacuation of dead babies from

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her womb. Betsy of Masaki disclosed this on Saturday after

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the immediate past governor of Adoor State and the current

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senator represented a Doornut Senatorial Zone of the state, Adams

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of Shimule, earlier in the month, called her out alongside

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her husband, the Ado State Governor, Godwin of Maaseki, that

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they are childless and the refused to adopt children even

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when both of them are in their sixties. Betsy of

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Masseki took advantage of adult Diaspora Women Virtual town Hall

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Meet intact Ador first Letters one on one with the

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diaspora community to narrate her life experiences with the wife

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of People’s Democratic Party PDP candidate if E were in

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Godalo amongst others in attendance. As the meeting started around

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three pm Nigeria time on Saturday, Betsy Obasseki during the

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meeting said that she is a potential and proud mother

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of children who will come in God’s time. O’Shea Manet

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has said before journalists that the governor and his wife

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refused to adopt any child because they did not love children.

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He stated this after describing his successor, Godwill Obaseki and

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his wife, Betsy Obasseki, as childless. They adored not Senate tounment,

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the controversial comment that drew the attention of many people

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in the society. While he said he was reacting to

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a statement by Betsy in which she reportedly claimed that

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the All Progressives Congress APC governorship candidate in the state,

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Monday open Holo, don’t have a wife. In the video,

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Oscea Molee said the governor and his wife refused to

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adopt any child because they did not love children. I

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was shocked yesterday to see missus Obaseki, the first lady,

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saying that our candidate has no wife. She is the

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most I’m sorry that she has to say that because

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here is a woman who has no child. Between him

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and Robaseki, they have no child. They are childless. He said,

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they are even not ready to adopt. I mean, I

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don’t blame anybody should not have a child, but people

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who have loved for children the God to motherless home

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and adopt children. They have not adopted. They are both

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in their sixties. So you married. I don’t know whether

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it’s a contract or whatever it is, but they have

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no child. However, Betty, while addressing women during the Zoom

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meeting with Adore women in the diaspora on Saturday, all

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childless women not to see themselves as barren, bought as fruitful,

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potential and proud mothers of children that would come in

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God’s time. She reminded them that everyone was created by

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God for a purpose. She was yet to have a

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child because she experienced miscourages, painful stillbots, and evacuations of

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bobbies who died in her womb. She said, my words

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of comfort to you, like myself, who have conceived and

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experienced miscourages, painful stillbirths, and evacuations of burbies who died

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in our wombs. Is this You are not barren. I

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m now to call you fruitful. You and I are

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potential and proud mothers of children who will come in

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God’s time. Enjoying the life God has given you. Take

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your mind of your challenge, and before you know it,

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children will start coming. My contributions to society have gone

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beyond the biological aspect of motherhood. Being fruitful is not

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limited to child bearing. It is about impacting lives and

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creating positive change in society. There is no point in

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feeling bad. Women can fulfill God’s pose in many ways

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beyond matterhood.

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Speaker 2: She added, I was shocked yesterday to see missus Subasaki,

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the first lady, saying that our cardidate has no wife.

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She is the most I’m sorry that she had to

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say that because here is a woman was no child

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between him and Obaski. They have no child. They are childless.

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They are even not ready to adopt. I mean, I

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don’t blame my bodies. You don’t have a child, but

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people who have love for children they go to modeliss

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who have adopt children. They have not adopted. They are

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both in their sixties. So you married with I don’t

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know whether it’s a contract or whatever it is, but

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they have no child. Now, our cardidate not only have children,

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he has invested in the education of their children such

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that you watch them on live television covered by your

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media sessions where the first one that spoke is a lawyer,

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the second one is a medical doctor, and they had

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dreads the crowd in the door, out in the in

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the doornut, and I was there as a human being.

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Speaker 3: A Really, what’s most important is that we.

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Speaker 4: Find that purpose.

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Speaker 1: Everyone is structured on earth by.

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Speaker 3: God to actualize their burbles in life. And once we

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have that mindset and we stick that in life and

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we are happy with our lives and we know that

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we’re moving on and actualizing what’s purpose to our lives

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and bringing the glory to God in the way we

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live our lives, it willn’t matter if I’m chanting the

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marks uh ave longer you. I would like to say

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to every woman I call you or sisters, if you

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feel hurts by whatever you had, I haven’t made much

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attention to it. My what of comforts to you would

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be this, In addition to what I just told you

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about seeking God’s face, seeking God’s purpose, I’ve been trying

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fulfillment theory.

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Speaker 4: I would.

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Speaker 1: Say to you.

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Speaker 3: Those of you who those of you sisters who like myself,

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had conceived and had discourages.

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Speaker 1: I would not also.

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Speaker 4: Say to you sisters who, again like myself, had had

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pain for evacuations of our babies who had died, and

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I w s I had suffered one such Just watch you.

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Speaker 1: I would always like to say.

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Speaker 4: To you out there who had.

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Speaker 3: Lost conceit and birth to babies who died perhaps at

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birth or at different stages in life. Who all of you,

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including ourselves, who have conceit to miscarriage, had the baculations,

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who as we speak today, do not have children, to

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show what the trauma and the pain that we have

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we’ve experienced in life.

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Speaker 4: My work to you.

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Speaker 3: Will have comfort to you. As I said to myself,

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you are not bad.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you are not bad.

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Speaker 3: So don’t be hurt if anyone calls you that, or

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anyone because a fellow woman that’s you.

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Speaker 4: Are not the father.

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Speaker 3: I dare to call you.

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Speaker 1: Footiful, And I said to you, like I said.

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Speaker 3: To myself, You and I where potent shall boding, prospective,

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proud mothers of lively children.

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Speaker 1: Then children will come in God’s time.

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Speaker 3: So hanging there, whil your head of high or a farm,

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enjoy the life of God has given you in the meantime.

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Speaker 1: Found God for what you have.

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Speaker 3: Found God for a loving.

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Speaker 1: Spouse like I have.

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Speaker 3: I said that I’m the best husband in the world.

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Found God for love of family, friends, and also what

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systems of God is given to you, and enjoy that

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life is given to me. Find the preference, face it,

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and take your mind off these things. I mean, before

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you know it, it will happens. I have learned that

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sometimes there’s some some people who are meant or called

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to pay the price for someone’s It strikes me that

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perhaps this is what’s happening, yelling me, and I’ve embraced it, umbrassed,

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embraced the court to pay the price on your behalf,

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to ensure that no man or woman ever calls you that.

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Speaker 1: In this land one ready read you the need in

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the mortgage. It’s aware